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Family members comprise the majority of my -both living and deceased- clients. If I ever have to restrict who I work for I would wish to practice most for parents who’s children are not in physical form anymore as this is where healing is most important. These brilliant young deceased people have SO much to teach us. They want their parents to know how close they are and how involved they still are in their family’s physical life. The young deceased try not to dwell on the pain that their physical death has caused their family. As one of my beloved deceased clients, Nicole says: when I think  a thought that causes me pain I take the golden eraser and erase it from my mind.  It does no good to blame myself, I can’t change the conditions of our lives now.

Another client, Aaron died in an auto accident and when he told me in a reading for his mother that he wanted his roadside memorial dismantled I thought this might hurt his mother’s feelings. As it turned out the owner of the property was demanding they remove the memorial and this put Aaron’s mother’s mind at ease. The deceased young people are wise, they are energetic, they are beautiful children that are very much alive, yet not in physical with us.

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I am reading your book Choices in the Afterlife andn feel my thoughts about death have been confirmed as well as further described. I wish I could get a friend of mine to have a reading with you. She lost her son in a plane crash about 5 years ago and is still greiving and looking for some sign that he is okay. She feels she has to validate his innocence in the crash as he was piloting the small plane. But somehow I think even is she were told she would not accept it. She is a wonderful creative artist but is lost in her sorrow. She has said she used to think nof his death in terms of the horrible impact and what happened to the bodies at impact. I choose to think that Wade knew he was about to die and probably left his body before the impact. Anyway I thank you for your bookfor it has confirmed that for me that there is nothing to fear about death.

Love and light to you always. JM

Dear Jerre,
The loss of a child is so staggering, especially unexpected loss. I feel the only comfort I can offer parents is that their children still exist, it is not much but it is what I can offer.
Your love for your friend really comes through, please see her in then light of your love as a person who is not stuck in her grief but is able to integrate her loss and still find some meaning in her life. Pass the book along and see if it resonates with her.
It is risky to suggest that she have a reading, on one hand there is tremendous hope that proof will come through, on the other hand, if the reading is not a clear and successful connection in energy it may compound pain, that is why each grieving parent must make their own decision whether to attempt conscious communication with their child. The way this often works is that when the child is aware of the connection or awareness with ME, the deceased can urge the living loved one on and make it happen somehow from their vantage point.
Thank you for your messages,
Gretchen

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