The work that is closest to my heart is with parents who’s children have transitioned out of physical. It doesn’t matter how old the parents are, or how old the children are, this is the event in a lifetime that breaks hearts. For parents of deceased children to even draw a breath and got up each day is a major accomplishment.
When I work with a parent and they have positive proof that their child still exists it brings some comfort to them. The first question that needs to be answered is: how are they doing now?
When I wrote the book I was doing a lot of soul rescue and the book reflects that. In fact the vast majority, (99.9 percent) of deceased children heal very quickly. They do not let themselves think unproductive thoughts and they see what is possible in the state of being they are in. They make choices of whether to age at the rate of their earth bound family or to stay the same age. The choose how they can help others, whether it is to be a guide for family members or to help other young people adjust to the afterlife.
But they still don’t become different people when they die, they start where they left off in life. Most take the high road to spiritual, mental and emotional improvement. It is the parents I remember in my nightly prayers.